Thanksgiving in Houston

KR went to Houston (November 14th-30th) to help out with Matt & Megan's new little one, Oliver, and I followed on the 21st to spend Thanksgiving. Brady, Natalie & kids also came down from Austin and we enjoyed a few days over the holiday weekend together. Good times. A highlight was being able to participate in Oliver's blessing on the Saturday after Thanksgiving with Matt & Brady. We were able to fit in a few home projects and eat some ribs. And the weather was actually quite nice - not too hot or humid.

Of course, we had to continue chopping away at the bucket list and spent a few days up in Oklahoma checking out the back roads. Oklahoma City has a couple of major must-see places in the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum, and the Oklahoma City National Memorial (about the bombing of the federal building there - a very emotional place). 












Loss of a Father

As the days pass, I often contemplate the temporal death of my father and how complex and wonderful is the relationship of a father and son. The months preceding his passing, and the experiences I had with him then, and the events of that week in October will stay with me forever. It is sad for everyone to be temporarily apart, yet I feel happy for him. He can again do a lot of things he really enjoys (like read a book or do a crossword puzzle) that had been taken away from him as his health failed. The parting is something we can endure. Why? Because I know his spirit lives and he is still with us. I know it. And we will be with him again. It was, for me, a wonderful experience to enjoy a perfect weekend with my extended family. Everyone did so well expressing themselves in word and song, the weather was perfect, and I personally thought the entire weekend was perfectly matched to the man. I am sure there were many that came away from the experience with a renewed vigor to increase their stride. "And I heard a voice from heaven saying, 'Write this: Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.' 'Blessed indeed,' says the Spirit, 'that they may rest from their labors, for their deeds follow them!" Revelation 14:13